
There is a “Thing” I should be doing daily. From a logical standpoint, I’m committed, onboard, and in total agreement. I have valid reasons (ahem—excuses) for not starting. I’m not a morning person. It’s hot outside, and I might sweat. It’s raining. I went to bed too late, and I’m tired. Instead of kicking my butt, putting my feet on the floor, and moving toward the door, I pull the covers over my head. My “Thing” is not rocket science. It is a simple 2.25-mile walk every morning. A few weeks ago, it was a habit, and for some inexplicable reason, I stopped.
Just do it, they say. It’s easy. Decide to start. But sometimes, starting is the most challenging step of the process. The motivational gurus are full of helpful advice aimed at pushing yourself into beginning your project. One tactic is to set up a reward or a bribe. Somehow, dangling a chocolate chip cookie in front of my nose to encourage me to take a “healthy” walk seems absurd.
Another strategy is to simplify the task, making it so easy to complete you can’t say “no.” I’m wise to that bait and switch scam. A five-minute walk isn’t worth the effort of tying my shoes, and I resent the mental manipulation required to trick myself into completing the entire circuit. If I get five minutes away from home, I’ve locked myself into at least a ten-minute walk. If I’m in for that long, I’m in for the whole 2.25 miles.
I stare at my Habit Tracker and the long line of big black X’s marking the days I didn’t walk. It occurs to me I have been obsessing over my failures this month. I know failure isn’t fatal, and it isn’t a permanent designation. I only need to review my prior month’s Habit Trackers to remind myself of my successes. My mind shifts and I realize what I must do to seize the day.
What is the “Thing” you should be doing?
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Keep on writing.
Jo Hawk The Writer
These days, my brain seems to be a see-saw, enthusiastic one minute, down in the dumps the next. No amount of positive thinking seems to make any difference, so I am learning to enjoy the good days (or hours) and quietly ignore the rest… Seize the day? that doesn’t mean grab it by the throat until it stops wriggling, does it?
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I understand your situation. 💗 I am trying to adapt to a new schedule and it is really messing with my brain, and creating havoc with my emotions. Yes there are days I want to strangle something. 😄😄
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Still praying for life to return to something approaching normal, but can’t see it happening just yet!
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This is so frustrating. Hang in there, my dear. 💗
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Secretly, I don’t see it happening any time soon…
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I can still see the day but it ran off with my list of things to do….
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LOL. I don’t get off that easily. Once I’ver written something down, it sticks in my head. 😎
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Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.
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Thank you for sharing. 💕🌸💕
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Always a joy and pleasure to read and share your posts with followers, My Dear! Hope you have a great day!! xoxox 😘💕🎁🌹
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Thanks so much for this great message, My Dear! I really needed it!
Chuck 😉🎁💕🌹
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LOL Glad I could help. 😊💕
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I’m so glad you did, Dear!
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