I’m an optimist. The choice was easy, pessimists are way too depressing. As a child, I remember watching people spout gloom and doom, they predicted the sky’s falling and swore we were going to hell in a handbasket. I trembled in my shoes, cowered under my covers, and prayed the boogeyman wouldn’t creep from under my bed to carry me into the night. Each morning the sun arrived to banish the darkness, and a brilliant blue sky buoyed my hope.
Their predictions rarely came true, and I learned to dismiss their warnings. Perhaps I was precocious when I challenged the status quo, and dared to seek the silver lining. I looked for evidence to discredit their opinions. I imagined a wonderful future, filled with opportunities, and smooth sailing. Not that I don’t have negative thoughts or feel depressed, overwhelmed, and discouraged. As counter-intuitive as it may seem, recognizing negative thoughts, confronting them, and challenging their validity puts you on the path to optimism.
Life can be awful, scary, and uncertain. But the fact is, change is constant. There is a saying that everything comes to pass, but nothing comes to stay. So, I can focus on the negative, and drown in misery, or embrace the option of celebrating the rain, smelling the roses, and creating a bright future.
What excites you about tomorrow?
Keep on writing.
Jo Hawk The Writer